My father was not a born-again believer in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior when my younger sister and I were growing up. Still, he attended church with the family Sunday morning and night without fail. He appears to have believed in what the church stood for and in the value of attending, at least for our sake.
I think his decision to attend contributed to my own life’s decisions. I am a believer and man of the church. By contrast, I had two Sunday school buddies, Fred and Howard, whose fathers never came to church. Both of these friends lost all connection to the church when they were fifteen or so. Fred died of a heart attack when he was thirty-one.. Howard led a checkered life, and he, too, has been gone for many years.
Simple attendance, such as my father’s, as valuable as it is, is far from the whole story when it comes to the Biblical understanding of church.
“Church” in the New Testament does not refer to a building or auditorium. The simplest translation for the word in English is “assembly” or “the called out” of God. It means a gathering of believers.
The Apostle Paul deepens our understanding by representing the church as a body, the body of Christ, who is her supreme head (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). And just as a body has arms and legs, eyes and ears, internal organs, etc., so the church is composed of individuals who exercise their special gifts in an orderly way to enhance the church’s communal life.
To the church in Rome Paul wrote, “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If a man’s gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully” (Romans 12: 6-8).
The gift of God’s Spirit is fundamental to all else. He awakens us with the new birth that opens our eyes to the life of God. And then the Spirit “gifts” us to serve in and through the workings of the church.
From these passages it is clear especially for Christians that the central idea is not only to attend but to contribute to worship and ministry.
You might wonder what became of my father’s church involvement after my sister and I grew up and left home. He responded to the gospel at age sixty-one, and experienced the new birth.
He had “attended” church for nearly all his adult life but now he had become a “living part” of the church — a member of Christ’s body. He went suddenly to be with the Lord when he was eighty-three, leaving with the family a comforting witness of personal faith and true membership in Christ’s body.
First published February 6, 2012; revised December 5, 2022
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